I’ve moved away from self-help- catch phrases like “my life is blessed”, “the universe is teaching me something”, “my journey”, et cetera.  It’s privileged language. Although I often feel there is a force of love and connection, there is painfully no way of knowing. And to believe that strings are being pulled for me and not for those suffering destitute poverty, not for those who live in racist societies, not for children dying of disease, not for those who live in oppressiv